Showing posts with label Path. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Path. Show all posts
Saturday, December 31, 2022
Thursday, December 22, 2022
Mindfulness Practices for Beginners
Although mindfulness meditation is all the rage these days, most of us have little time for formal practice.
Studies have found mindfulness meditation has many benefits.
Studies have found mindfulness meditation has many benefits.
- Reducing Depression
- Reducing Pain
- Increasing Creativity
- Accelerating Cognition
- Settling the Mind
Mindfulness meditation doesn't have to be a chore in itself. There are quick and easy ways to add a little mindfulness into your busy everyday life.
- Walking Meditation - Easiest and best done somewhere with few distractions, but you can try this one anywhere you will be walking for as little as ten to fifteen minutes. As with most forms of mindfulness, it's about focusing your attention. Start with how your feet feel touching the ground with each step, then you can begin focusing on your breath or maybe move your attention around to each part of your body. The key is to develop a relaxed state of attention. When your mind wanders bring it back without judging yourself.
- Eating Meditation - Practice a little mindfulness meditation while you eat. When you take that first bite, really notice how it tastes. Take notice of how it smells or maybe the textures in your mouth. You don't want to do this the entire meal. But as a tool to focus your attention on the present moment.
- Small Break - Turn away from the computer, tablet, or smartphone. Just sit for a while noticing the sensations in your mind and body. How do you feel? What can you hear? Just being present in the moment. Let wandering thoughts go, and bring your focus back to the present. Just be.
- Mindful Listening - We get used to all of the commotion of life that we have a tendency to tune out things in our surroundings. ie; If you live in a city, there might be sirens, trains, and the hustle and bustle of people. In the country, trees sway about, or maybe birds sing. What can you hear right now? As an exercise, you can put on some music, try to not let your mind wander. It may remind you of something or someone, bringing your mind back to the music. Try not to focus on the lyrics just take notice of the flow of the music.
- The Small Things - Even small things we do on a daily basis can become an opportunity to experience this moment. Brushing your teeth, your mind may be thinking of a thousand other things. Instead, try to focus on the task at hand. Take notice of the taste of the toothpaste, and how the bristles feel on your teeth. Showering or bathing is yet another opportunity to focus your mind on your senses instead of worries and useless thoughts.
- The Breath - One of the most well-known techniques to focus on the moment is paying attention to your breath. Simply experiencing your breath in and out, it's like push-ups for your mind.
Hopefully, these exercises will help you develop a mindfulness practice. By no means is this list all there is.
A quote from mindfulness expert Jon Kabat-Zinn,
"Mindfulness means paying attention in a particular way; on purpose, in the present moment, and non-judgmentally."
So don't feel limited to these exercises. Feel free to mix and match, explore the internet, and find the ones that fit you and your life the best.
Almost any activity can be incorporated into your mindfulness practice, and "Practice Makes Perfect."
Wednesday, January 15, 2020
Let Common Sense Be Your Guide
No matter what #news you are following today. It's always best to trust in your own #commonsense |
"Believe nothing, no matter where you read it, or who said it, no matter it I said it, unless it agrees with your own reason and your own common sense."your own common Sense |
We all have our own path's to follow in life. We all choices's that we make. Sometimes that divides communities, families, and friends.
I feel it's important to not be distracted by news, government, or individuals. Who would like to cloud our judgment or common sense.
I am not a political person, I have never posted anything political on my blog before.
BUT, my common sense tells me ....... and this is just my opinion.
1st) I am an American born and raised, I was once very proud of that statement.
2nd) I believe the recent drone attack on the Iran general was a distraction created by the Trump Administration hoping it would get the News media and democrats off his back and stop Impeachment. (Killing someone for your own personal gain has to be a crime) I can't condone this behavior as an American Citizen. (Common Sense)
Thursday, May 4, 2017
5 Ways to Embrace the Idea of Impermanence
5 Ways to Embrace the Idea of Impermanence
1) Reduce expectations
Many of us have high expectations for our family, our business, our marriage…and we expect this to remain constant and last forever. But nothing lasts forever. Of course, you can have expectations with how you want things to turn out, but you can’t attach yourself to these results.
When you set reasonable expectations, and don’t demand a particular outcome, you’re better able to react to change and develop a more healthy response to loss, disappointment and pain.
2) Acknowledge change
Cultivate the awareness that can happen quickly and at any time. Learning to develop this mindset allows to let things happen when it unfolds instead of approaching change from a place of denial and resistance.
3) Practice acceptance
Many of us try to desperately prevent change from happening because we fear the unknown. Instead of resisting, allow change to unfold. A lot of the time, this attitude will make life easier to deal with.
For example, by refusing to accept a negative emotion like anxiety, we actually make it worse because we’re fighting against it. Circumstances will not always turn out the way you want and that’s okay. Embracing the situation can help you deal with it far more effectively.
4) Learn from experience
If you embrace change, you will start finding lessons in it. Trying to keep everything fixed means we’re not really changing and therefore we’re not really growing. Life is constant growth in many different ways. Change and different experiences can be your greatest teacher, but only if you give yourself permission to learn from it.
5) Embrace the wisdom
Not only you grow as a person when you embrace change, but more inner peace will come into your life. Instead of fighting against the principles of the universe, you’re flowing it which will bring my calmness and joy. And when life shakes you up with twists and turns, you’ll realize that changes can’t break you. When we accept change, and learn from it, change is no longer our enemy. It becomes our teacher.
How can you use impermanence in your everyday life?
According to Buddhism, our suffering arises from attachment to desires. These desires can vary from material objects, sensual pleasures or even your relationships. The reason desiring causes suffering is because attachments are transient and loss is inevitable.
If the only constant in the universe is change, then by attaching yourself to something, you are trying to control and make something fixed. Suffering will follow because you are going against the constant flux of the universe.
So what can you do instead?
Embrace the idea of change! By accepting the idea of impermanence, it helps us appreciate everything we are experiencing in the present moment: our relationships, mood, body, health, the weather.
We must savor the moments we enjoy because they won’t last forever. Likewise, when we’re experiencing something that’s negative, we know that it also won’t last forever.
Wednesday, January 18, 2017
Tuesday, January 17, 2017
Sunday, January 15, 2017
A Summary of Buddha's Teaching
“...when you find that anything agrees with reason and is conducive to the good and the benefit of one and all, then accept it and live up to it.”
- Attributed to BUDDHA
1. All things and experiences are marked by suffering/ disharmony/ frustration (dukkha).
2. The arising of suffering/ disharmony/ frustration comes from desire/ craving/ clinging.
3. To achieve the cessation or end of suffering/ disharmony/ frustration, let go of desire/ craving/ clinging.
4. The way to achieve the end of suffering/ disharmony/ frustration, is walking the Eightfold Path.
1. Right Understanding of the following facts:
• the truth about suffering ... (The Four Truths);
• everything is impermanent and changes;
• there is no separate individual self- this is an illusion. (We are one!)
2. Right Determination to:
• give up what is wrong and evil;
• undertake what is good;
• abandon thoughts that have to do with bringing suffering to any conscious being; cultivate thoughts of loving kindness, that are based on caring about others' suffering, and sympathetic joy in others' happiness.
3. Right Speech:
• Abstain from telling lies.
• Abstain from talk that brings harm or discredit to others (such as backbiting or slander) or talk that creates hatred or disharmony between individuals and groups.
• Abstain from harsh, rude, impolite, malicious, or abusive language.
• Abstain from idle, useless, and foolish babble and gossip. Abstain from recrimination and negative statements.
• Abstain from harsh speech—practice kindly speech.
• Abstain from frivolous speech—practice meaningful speech.
• Abstain from slanderous speech—practice harmonious speech.
• Speak the truth if it is useful and timely. Practice only necessary speech. Let your speech be filled with loving kindness. Speak that which alleviates suffering.
4. Right Action:
• Peaceful, honorable conduct; abstain from dishonest dealings; take concrete steps necessary to foster what is good.
• Do things that are moral, honest, and alleviate suffering. Do not do things that will bring suffering to others or yourself.
5. Right Livelihood:
• Abstain from making your living from an occupation that brings harm and suffering to humans or animals, or diminish their well being. This includes: activities that directly harm conscious beings, and activities that indirectly harm sentient beings, e.g., making weapons or poisons.
6. Right Effort:
• Foster good and prevent evil;
• Work on yourself—be engaged in appropriate self-improvement. The essence of right effort is that everything must be done with a sense of proper balance that fits the situation. Effort should be balanced between trying too hard and not trying hard enough. For example, strike the balance between excessive fasting and over-indulgence in food. Trying hard to progress too rapidly gets poor results, as does not trying hard enough.
7. Right Mindfulness or wakefulness:
• Foster right attention.
• Avoid whatever clouds our mental awareness (e.g., drugs).
• Systematically and intentionally develop awareness.
8. Right Concentration:
• Developed by practicing meditation and/or mental focusing. Proper meditation must be done continuously while awake, and should include work on awareness of body, emotions, thought, and mind objects.
1. Abstain from killing living beings (from destroying/taking life)—or practice love.
2. Abstain from taking the not-given (from stealing)—or practice generosity, practice giving.
3. Abstain from sexual misconduct—or practice contentment.
4. Abstain from false speech (from lying)—or practice truthfulness.
5. Abstain from taking intoxicating drinks—or practice awareness and mental clarity.
Buddha said:
Do not believe in anything simply because you have heard it. Do not believe in traditions because they have been handed down for many generations. Do not believe anything because it is spoken and rumored by many. Do not believe in anything because it is written in your religious books. Do not believe in anything merely on the authority of your teachers and elders. But after observation and analysis, when you find that anything agrees with reason and is conducive to the good and the benefit of one and all, then accept it and live up to it.
The following prose, attributed to Buddha, expresses the way he perceived the world.
Buddha said:
• I consider the positions of kings and rulers as that of dust motes.
• I observe treasures of gold and gems as so many bricks and pebbles.
• I look upon the finest silken robes as tattered rags.
• I see myriad worlds of the universe as small seeds of fruit, and the greatest lake in India as a drop of oil upon my foot.
• I perceive the teachings of the world as the illusions of magicians.
• I discern the highest conception of emancipation as a golden brocade in a dream, and view the holy path of the illuminated ones as flowers appearing in one's eyes.
• I see meditation as a pillar of a mountain, nirvana as a nightmare of daytime.
• I look upon the judgments of right and wrong as the serpentine dance of a dragon, and the rise and fall of belief as traces left by the four seasons.
- Attributed to BUDDHA
A Summary of Buddha's Teaching
The vastness of the Buddha's Teachings can be a bit overwhelming, especially for the Solitary Practitioner. I have outlined what I think are the basics of what I have discovered on my path to learn the Dharma. When things begin to be a bit overwhelming, I return to the basics. I hope this benefits you in some way.
Buddha set forth his teaching in the following doctrine;
The Four Noble Truths:
1. All things and experiences are marked by suffering/ disharmony/ frustration (dukkha).
2. The arising of suffering/ disharmony/ frustration comes from desire/ craving/ clinging.
3. To achieve the cessation or end of suffering/ disharmony/ frustration, let go of desire/ craving/ clinging.
4. The way to achieve the end of suffering/ disharmony/ frustration, is walking the Eightfold Path.
The Eightfold Path to the end of suffering:
1. Right Understanding of the following facts:
• the truth about suffering ... (The Four Truths);
• everything is impermanent and changes;
• there is no separate individual self- this is an illusion. (We are one!)
2. Right Determination to:
• give up what is wrong and evil;
• undertake what is good;
• abandon thoughts that have to do with bringing suffering to any conscious being; cultivate thoughts of loving kindness, that are based on caring about others' suffering, and sympathetic joy in others' happiness.
3. Right Speech:
• Abstain from telling lies.
• Abstain from talk that brings harm or discredit to others (such as backbiting or slander) or talk that creates hatred or disharmony between individuals and groups.
• Abstain from harsh, rude, impolite, malicious, or abusive language.
• Abstain from idle, useless, and foolish babble and gossip. Abstain from recrimination and negative statements.
• Abstain from harsh speech—practice kindly speech.
• Abstain from frivolous speech—practice meaningful speech.
• Abstain from slanderous speech—practice harmonious speech.
• Speak the truth if it is useful and timely. Practice only necessary speech. Let your speech be filled with loving kindness. Speak that which alleviates suffering.
4. Right Action:
• Peaceful, honorable conduct; abstain from dishonest dealings; take concrete steps necessary to foster what is good.
• Do things that are moral, honest, and alleviate suffering. Do not do things that will bring suffering to others or yourself.
5. Right Livelihood:
• Abstain from making your living from an occupation that brings harm and suffering to humans or animals, or diminish their well being. This includes: activities that directly harm conscious beings, and activities that indirectly harm sentient beings, e.g., making weapons or poisons.
6. Right Effort:
• Foster good and prevent evil;
• Work on yourself—be engaged in appropriate self-improvement. The essence of right effort is that everything must be done with a sense of proper balance that fits the situation. Effort should be balanced between trying too hard and not trying hard enough. For example, strike the balance between excessive fasting and over-indulgence in food. Trying hard to progress too rapidly gets poor results, as does not trying hard enough.
7. Right Mindfulness or wakefulness:
• Foster right attention.
• Avoid whatever clouds our mental awareness (e.g., drugs).
• Systematically and intentionally develop awareness.
8. Right Concentration:
• Developed by practicing meditation and/or mental focusing. Proper meditation must be done continuously while awake, and should include work on awareness of body, emotions, thought, and mind objects.
Five basic precepts:
1. Abstain from killing living beings (from destroying/taking life)—or practice love.
2. Abstain from taking the not-given (from stealing)—or practice generosity, practice giving.
3. Abstain from sexual misconduct—or practice contentment.
4. Abstain from false speech (from lying)—or practice truthfulness.
5. Abstain from taking intoxicating drinks—or practice awareness and mental clarity.
Buddha said:
Do not believe in anything simply because you have heard it. Do not believe in traditions because they have been handed down for many generations. Do not believe anything because it is spoken and rumored by many. Do not believe in anything because it is written in your religious books. Do not believe in anything merely on the authority of your teachers and elders. But after observation and analysis, when you find that anything agrees with reason and is conducive to the good and the benefit of one and all, then accept it and live up to it.
The following prose, attributed to Buddha, expresses the way he perceived the world.
Buddha said:
• I consider the positions of kings and rulers as that of dust motes.
• I observe treasures of gold and gems as so many bricks and pebbles.
• I look upon the finest silken robes as tattered rags.
• I see myriad worlds of the universe as small seeds of fruit, and the greatest lake in India as a drop of oil upon my foot.
• I perceive the teachings of the world as the illusions of magicians.
• I discern the highest conception of emancipation as a golden brocade in a dream, and view the holy path of the illuminated ones as flowers appearing in one's eyes.
• I see meditation as a pillar of a mountain, nirvana as a nightmare of daytime.
• I look upon the judgments of right and wrong as the serpentine dance of a dragon, and the rise and fall of belief as traces left by the four seasons.
A really good book that covers the basics and more
A Beginner's Guide to Tibetan Buddhism: Notes from a Practitioner's Journey by Lama Bruce Newman. The author takes the beginner by the hand to walk through the intricacies of the
path, making complex ideas and terminology plain and simple. A solid,
down-to-earth book.
Monday, January 2, 2017
Top 10 Buddhist Books for Children
Top 10 Buddhist Books For Children – And The Benefits Of Buddhism For Children
Buddhist books for children are a great way to introduce Buddha's teachings.
Starting to teach a child about Buddhism at a young age can be very beneficial.
The benefits of Buddhist books for children
Buddhism can teach children to think for themselves, teach them about empathy and compassion. Which is needed since we, as a society, have failed in teaching these values to our children.
Serious flaws in our education system result in basic skills not being learned. Society cries out for change, and attempts are made, but are we making any progress?
Also parenting and human interaction could be improved upon. Centuries of the principle that humans are innately evil, of penance, of shame and guilt induction, of duty and obligations are hard to shake off. We imprint bad habits on our children and start cycles all over again. The suffering does not end.
Buddhist stories can help shift towards a more healthy, less violent culture. Maybe you do not realize our culture is completely permeated with violence (a striking example is our language).
Some more benefits:
- Buddhism can help develop compassion in a culture where violence is made enjoyable. Just think about the majority of movies and children’s cartoons in which the hero kills or beats someone up.
- A developed introspective look helps banish neuroticism and superstition. If you are able to feel what’s going on inside and outside, you are better capable of empathy.
- Empathy breaks down hierarchic structures and, more importantly, imagination requires empathy.
In his book The Empathic Civilization bestselling author Jeremy Rifkin points out that global empathy is essential in being able to cope with the great challenges of our time. A drastic change in human consciousness, are needed. Empathy will be needed for our survival as a species.
“Imagination is more important than knowledge. For knowledge is limited to all we now know and understand, while imagination embraces the entire world, and all there ever will be to know and understand.” –Albert Einstein
Buddhism can be fun too
Enlightenment doesn’t require sitting under a tree for days. Nor does it call for being taught about or believing in Buddhism.
Just by amusing yourself and your child with the often both entertaining and meaningful Buddhist stories you may give them an edge in becoming generous, compassionate, virtuous, responsible, and self-reflecting beings.
These books may provide them with tools for learning what is really important in life and equip them with some basic skills needed to find happiness.
The top 10 books on Buddhism for children
This list contains the most popular, highest rated, best selling books. It also explains why these books are so great.
Through these books children will learn the basics of Buddhism. The beautiful colorful illustrations, and vivid metaphors will also teach children about relaxation, happiness, breathing, and even meditation.
Buddhism made accessible and enjoyable for children. This book covers a broad range of Buddha's basic teachings. It includes 20, both short and long, stories about how to be wise and thoughtful. These stories are modern retellings of ancient Buddhist tales.
They have shown to be entertaining for children and adult parents alike. In fact they contain wonderful lessons for grown-ups as well. So beware, as a parent or grandparent you might learn something new and educational along the way.
Buddha at Bedtime |
#1 Buddha at Bedtime
Buddha at Bedtime offers an introduction to basic meditation and relaxation techniques, and demonstrates how to discuss the stories with your child. Furthermore there’s an overview of The Four Noble Truths, The Eightfold Path, and The Five Precepts.Recommended for children of ages 4-10.
Buddha at Bedtime: Tales of Love and Wisdom for You to Read with Your Child to Enchant, Enlighten and Inspire by Dharmachari Nagaraja.
#2 The Three Questions
The Three Questions |
The Three Questions is such a book that’s highly valued by both children and parents as well. This story concerns a king who wants to find the answers to what he considers the three most important questions in life.
Jon J Muth’s The Three Questions teaches children about compassion and living in the moment. The beautiful water-colored illustrations and the charming narrating style make this one of the best Buddhist books for children.
Focused on children aged 5 to 9 but readers from all ages might be able to satisfy their basic spiritual needs with it too.
This author’s children’s books have received numerous awards.
This author’s children’s books have received numerous awards.
“The Three Questions is quietly life-changing” according to The New York Times Book Review. Here’s the praiseful NY Times article.
”The Three Questions” presents a world of moral consequence and choice, where questions of right and wrong must be puzzled out and where each person’s actions really do make a difference. Young and old readers alike will take heart from that.”
#3 Peaceful Piggy Meditation
Peaceful Piggy Meditation |
Piggy Meditation is a great book in itself but is also very useful as a tool to help restless, hyperactive children find some inner peace.
This book deserves to be in the top 10 because it is one of the few children’s books on Buddhism that explains and teaches age-appropriate meditation techniques.
Despite it’s core topic being meditation the book has a down-to-earth, modern narrative style (e.g. there are video-game playing pigs). Reading this book at bedtime might help create an oasis of calmness and relaxation in a childs (and their parents) life.
“The book guides children through the reasons why meditation is necessary, and believe me when I say it is the best book on the market for doing so (I looked around extensively). Especially good is the “mind-in-a-jar” experiment at the end of the book which gives a concrete, hands-on demonstration of why meditation is necessary.” Amazon reviewer
Peaceful Piggy Meditation (Albert Whitman Prairie Books)
#4 Zen Ties
Zen Ties |
Themes of this book are; non-judgment, acceptance, friendship, forgiveness, connections, and community.
This is another example of a book written for children that is capable of teaching adults some valuable life lessons too.
This is another example of a book written for children that is capable of teaching adults some valuable life lessons too.
“He lovingly distills the wisdom of ancient Zen teachings into the most touching and practical stories about the things we all come up against in life and frequently do not, despite our best intentions, know how to handle.”
#5 Each Breath a Smile
Each Breath a Smile |
Great book on mindful breathing and a wonderful
children's book written by Sister Thuc Nghiem (Susan Swan), a grandmother, former teacher, and a nun in the tradition of Thich Nhat Hanh.
Each Breath a Smile shows children how to relax and enjoy happiness through mindful breathing. This way they learn about Buddhism and how breathing the right way can help them experience calmness and joyfulness.
For preschool-aged children.
Each Breath a Smile by Sister Susan. Plum Blossom Books.
#6 I Once Was a Monkey: Stories Buddha Told
I Once Was a Monkey |
I Once Was a Monkey: consists of short stories addressing universal values. These stories are based on jakatas.
Jakatas are tales that Buddha told. They are based on the experiences, and lessons that Buddha learned through his past lives as different animals. Buddha has been a monkey, dove, lion, jackal, and dove.
#7 Anh’s Anger
Anh's Anger |
It teaches both children and parents about the value of acknowledging and resolving complex emotions such as anger.
“A really simple and yet profound story of a grandfather teaching a young boy how to sit with the difficult emotion of anger. A lesson not just for children but grown ups as well.”#8 A Pebble for Your Pocket
A Pebble for Your Pocket |
A Pebble for Your Pocket isn’t a picture book, so it’s probably best suitable for 8-12 year olds and children that read independently.
“A Pebble for Your Pocket is a gem from a true spiritual master.” Parenting with Spirit magazine
#9 Parrot and the Fig Tree
The Parrot and The Fig Tree |
originated in India, each of which relays an ethical teaching. Animals and magical beings, representing Buddha’s former lives, play an essential role in these tales.
The tale of Parrot and the Fig Tree introduces seasons, the interdependency of all beings, and the value of loyalty.
A parrot refuses to abandon his good friend, a fig tree, even during winter when the tree has no figs, and eventually even when it is destroyed by a storm. For his loyalty to the tree, the parrot is rewarded by the god Shakra, with the rebirth of the tree.
#10 Magic of Patience (A Jataka Tale)
The Magic of Patience |
mischievous Monkey, despite all his annoying tricks.
Core topic of this book is how to show patience, instead of anger, and how this behavior can yield goodwill and harmony.
*Includes coloring pages.
Buddhist stories can open the hearts and minds of people but don't take my word for it. If you investigate it as the Buddha said you should you’ll know it’s true.
Monday, May 23, 2016
The Self Proclaimed Solitary Buddhist
I am the "Self Proclaimed Solitary Buddhist" follow me on my journey as I navigate this thing called life. I have no known Buddhist communities near me or like minded people in my mostly Catholic family. But that is not going to stop me from doing what I feel is right and what I need to be doing.
My intentions are to post several times per month if not weekly on my progress on my Buddhist practice and thoughts. Any input from Blog readers will be appreciated and will be taken as constructive criticism.
In my continued postings I'll discuss a little more about myself and the path I have chosen as a Buddhist and the knowledge I seek.
My intentions are to post several times per month if not weekly on my progress on my Buddhist practice and thoughts. Any input from Blog readers will be appreciated and will be taken as constructive criticism.
In my continued postings I'll discuss a little more about myself and the path I have chosen as a Buddhist and the knowledge I seek.
Thursday, May 12, 2016
The Choices We Make, The Paths We Take.
This path can be a lonely one, but one can not let an emotion like loneliness take control of our journey. Do you have a Sangha to share your thoughts on Buddhism? Maybe family members who are easy to talk to? Whatever your situation, remember this is your life. Karma good or bad, it is ours. Will you do anything different today, or follow the same path you have been following? I wish all of you the clarity of mind to make right choices in this life.
Tuesday, January 19, 2016
The Buddha Gave Relationship Advice?
Dhammapada for the 21st Century
Who knew the Buddha was giving relationship advice so many years ago?
Of course the Buddha at the time was talking to monk's, in reference to them all getting along. In my opinion, I think it would apply to FRIENDS and RELATIONSHIPS today.
Please leave a comment after reading, let me know if you found this useful. Thanks!
Dhammapada Verse 328-330
Friends on the road again. |
Verse 329 - If one can not find a thoughtful, honest, and reliable friend one should continue your virtuous life alone until you do..... (note: of course you still have the Buddha, the Dharma, and the Sangha. So you are not totally alone. Just saying.)
Good friends are hard to come by but are worth it |
Wednesday, December 30, 2015
Meditaion Method For Relaxation
In
the last post, we talked a little about learning to meditate and its
benefits. In this post, we are going to talk about unlocking our hidden potential
through meditation.
Relax and watch the breath |
People
who don’t practice meditation often misunderstand it. Very often, you’ll hear it
referred to as mystical or transcendental, which makes them feel wary about
trying it. When in fact, it’s simply a practiced skill that can help bring clarity
to a cluttered mind. I know I get quite a few strange looks when I tell people what I like to do for relaxation.
Without
going too deep in to what meditation is, or isn’t, let’s focus on one of the
many things a daily meditation can do for you.
Meditation
is often seen in Yoga classes and is widely practiced by a variety of cultures,
countries and religious groups. I only mention this so you can understand that
the art of meditation is perfectly safe and commonly practiced by millions of
people around the world.
Some
of the more documented benefits of meditation include less anxiety, irritability,
moodiness and decreased depression. It can help improve your learning
abilities, memory and unlock creativity. It can also slow down the aging
process increase feelings of vitality and rejuvenation. Not to mention it can
reduce stress, lower blood pressure, and produce higher blood oxygen levels
There
are many types of meditation, but the easiest form to learn that I have encountered thus far is, “breath awareness
meditation.” Compared to many other meditation techniques, this will enable a person
to experience the benefits of meditation in much less time.
Here's
a simple technique that I found gave me results in minutes. Sit comfortably,
close your eyes, and tense up your whole body. Blow as much air out of your lungs as you can. Then breath deeply
through your nose and release the tension from every muscle. Just feel each
part relaxing, watching for parts that may hold onto tension, like a tight jaw.
If
you still have tension somewhere, tense up that part again, then let it relax.
It may also help to repeat silently like a mantra "relax" as the tension drains.
This will train your body and mind to recognize relaxation. Later you may be
able to relax more easily just by repeating the mantra "relax" a few times.
Breath
through your nose. This is important because it brings in more oxygen by
involving your diaphragm more. You can test this. Breath with your mouth and
you'll notice that your breathing is shallower. Then breath through your nose
and you'll notice that your abdomen extends more. Air is being drawn deeper
into your lungs.
Allow
your breathing to fall into a comfortable pattern, and pay attention to it. Pay
attention to your breath as it passes in and out of your nose. Your mind may
wander endlessly, but all you have to do is continually bring attention back to
your breath.
Focus Meditation |
If
your mind is still too busy, try naming the distractions as a way of setting
them aside. For example, say in your mind, "itchy leg," "worried
about work," or "anger," and then immediately return attention
to your breathing. Use any way you can to identify and set aside distractions.
That's
it. Continue this for five or ten minutes at first.
Afterwards, I open my eyes and sit there for a few seconds. I feel relaxed,
and my mind refreshed. Also better prepared for any
challenges that come my way.
Meditation
has many rewards, and through daily practice, one can learn to release the
unlimited potential of your mind and body. For example, Since I've started writing this blog, my mind has become clearer allowing me to be more productive.
In my next post, I will be continuing to talk about how to use meditation
exercises for relaxation.
Until
then, Namaste _/l\_
The Self Proclaimed Solitary Buddhist
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